I feel hate for the people who come in for a virus, come in for back pain and want narcotics, come in for anxiety, or because their child is unmanageable, or expect me to be their friend just because I am their doctor. I am tired, tired of lying, tired of being lied to, tired of people telling me deep dark secrets and expecting me to solve everything. They all LOVE me because I can listen (basically I have nothing to say to them, and have very little skill at manipulating a social interaction - which is required in my profession). I am good at certain aspects of my job, and I enjoy procedures (working with my hands, minor office surgery, etc). I have been criticized (unfairly) so heavily by other doctors in the community that I know I mentally and physically cannot do this job. I don't have any clue what to do after this.
To be considered good at your job in this world, you have to work 80 hours a week, take care of inpatients, outpatients, be on call, put up with phone calls and visits to your home. Most of the "successful" doctors in the community are arrogant bullshit artists who viciously attack other doctors to make themselves look better to administrators. I hate this job and the whole medical world. I have been practicing actively for 10 years.
#I want to quit my job as a doctor professional#
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